Q:  According to a new article (by YourTango)… What is the #1 Phrase A Smart Spouse Says When Their Partner Is Upset?

A: “I see this is important”

2. “Please help me understand”
3. “Would you like me to listen, or are you looking for solutions?”
4. “We’re on the same team”
5. “I’d feel the same if I were in your shoes”
6. “Let’s pause and talk about this when we both feel ready”
7. “Can we start over? I don’t want this to be a fight”
8. “I know you’re upset, and I want to support you. What can I do?”
9. “I know this means a lot to you. Let’s figure this out together”
10. “We’ll work through this like we always do”

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